Firstly the fact is that you have to have a long discussion with yourself about why you want to go out and what you want to get out of it. Do you want to meet people, do you just want to get out of the confines of your own isolated home world, or for some fun exhibitionism or clothes shopping or just to be able to walk 500 metres in high heels.
In my experience these things rarely happen. Let’s get a couple of things straight. Going out dressed today is far less daunting than it was over 15 years ago when I first took girls out. Transvestism is on the border of becoming mainstream and a vast majority of people now accept it as commonplace. The number of venues that welcome T’s has grown exponentially in the last two years. They now see them as adding co!our and fun to their venues. Why even Primark now says they can change in either men’s or women’s changing rooms.
Everywhere is much more accepting and helpful towards you girls so there are far less barriers and prejudice than in the past. So do try to relax.
That being said there are still a few numpties out there who get a cheap kick from having a go. They are rare beasts but beware they exist. I was out at the races the other day when a drunken real girl started commenting on the T-girls I was with, her friends apologised immediately and 2 other guys who were sitting at the bar immediately came across and asked if they could have their pictures taken with the girls. Time have changed so much! But who cares about what people say its more about what you think.
So you are off with those pterodactyl butterflies in your stomach. Plan the venue ahead don’t go on spec. Try to meet someone you know sometime in the daytime/evening as its better as a pair or group. Come out with my Susie’s Angels group.
Alcohol in moderation is an absolute must. It does not give you confidence but a small glass does calm the nerves. And a drunk Tranny is not a pretty sight! Dancing yes but again unless you are an exhibitionist get a grip on those falling arms. Chat to people but don’t chat up people that will most likely come on to you. Even though you might be in quite an excited, even aroused state you should avoid this at this juncture? You will be sending out the wrong messages and confusing them and you have enough of your own problems to contend with!
On your return home you will be exhilarated at the experience and on a real high. Taking your clothes and make-up off will be a nasty come down but just relax and look at it as a great experience and an opportunity to do it again sometime when the urge takes you.
I do escorted trips if you need a helping hand and also run a group called Susie’s Angels where we would be delighted to see you. XXX