Though you would like to know a little about a Day at Chateau Femme from my experiences.
You will have contacted Susie and said what themes you wanted for the pictures. Expect 2 or 3 changes in a morning or afternoon or 5 for a whole day so think of what you want to do. You will have given Susie your size of clothes and shoes.
You arrive. Cup of tea or coffee or champagne (yes its that sort of place) while you calm down and chat. Then you go to choose clothes. Susie will have arranged possible clothes and you find the ones you want to wear.
Next back to the bedroom for you to get changed into underwear. You are feeling pretty sexy by this point and excited. Note go to the loo before dressing!! You put a robe over the underwear and go into the makeup room.
Hope you aren’t allergic to dogs because Jack and Twix, her terriers often steals the show and will happily settle down on the bed to watch you.
Susie will make you up into the woman you always wanted to be. That is when the magic happens of course. The eyelashes are long and sexy and the lips red and full.
Before I forget – preparation. Shave closely before you go and if possible make sure your hands are not too hairy.
After the makeup comes the nails. Susie uses stick on nails which are quite easy to remove at the end but don’t come off during the day Very important this is – tales of men with nails that can’t be taken off are chilling but true.
At this point you find it difficult to do much – long nails mess up carrying things and using zips. Susie will help you into the clothes and get you dressed. What shoes and wig you wear is up to you. Susie will show you a choice and you can try as many as you want to get the perfect you.
You are dressed for the first time and look at yourself iin one of the many mirrors that Susie has around the place. Is that me? The glamorous diva or foxy secretary. Wow.
The fun really starts then…
Lots of Love
Hi I’m AnnA Vincent and that’s AnnA with two capital A’s.
You don’t want to hear my history, my journey, my challenges, my self-doubts or about the times I just wished I was stronger. After all they will quite possibly read like your own. So instead I’ll give you a little of what changed everything for me and I mean everything…
Moving from separation, through divorce and a new-found freedom (to a point, with three nearly grown-up kids), I needed to find myself. New Year’s resolution 2014/5 ‘Let AnnA out of the bag!’ Well out of anywhere with closed curtains actually. I wanted, well needed, to meet other people, not just like me but ‘normal’ people, men, women and those like myself that sometimes are not quite sure.
It took three long weeks into the New Year until 21st January, 2015 before I went anywhere or met anyone. That said it took 40+ much longer years to get to this point. Amy-Janes party in Melksham was my destination and I had the most wonderful time, perched on ‘my’ Bar Stool too frightened to get down…
The game changer though was meeting Susie Adams, proprietor of ChateauFemme.co.uk. I searched over a few months looking for a dressing service where I thought I would feel comfortable. My ‘Mr Grumpy’ side I don’t think is vain (well not a lot) but AnnA, well she was desperate for some nice pic’s of herself before her looks faded. Something to put in a box and perhaps ‘show & tell’ to friends & family whilst laying on ‘our’ death bed!
My mind now is full of ‘What If’s…’ because if I had chosen another dressing service, I know I would not be what I am today, which is very HAPPY! What if I had dialled another number? Well had I done so, I would not have been greeted with a big beaming smile and the words “Coffee or Tea?” followed by “You must be AnnA!” I know that there are plenty of dressing services out there, believe me I did my research. But I wasn’t looking for just a dressing service, I was looking something extra even now I am not entirely sure what, but Susie changed my life.
I was so nervous walking up the drive. Deep breath in, hold it… and release… in, hold, release… Then the knock at the door and those words and smile I still remember so well. Put at my ease immediately we had a coffee, some nerve settling conversation and then Susie showed me some lovely outfits she had set aside thinking that I might like them. And she was not wrong… This was back two years ago before my full body waxing and recent laser treatments. Back in a time of opaque nude tights and body stockings to hide the Gorilla warfare going on all over my body.
Sat in Susie’s make-up chair pampered and wrapped in a beautiful Satin robe made me feel like I was the only girl she had ever done this for. She took some amazing pictures (even if I say so myself, but all down to her and a lot of smoke & mirrors on my part). I had the most wonderful day and have been back a further 6 times since. Susie, I soon came to realise truly loves what she does and the ‘girls’ that she meets. She also runs a wonderful social group via Facebook called Susie’s Angels. She organises events and opportunities in Bournemouth for new ‘first time out’ girls to meet those more experienced.
AnnA’s 40+ years of solitude have now faded with the delivery of so many tears of happiness. Even now I can’t believe I met a woman such as Susie and so many wonderful and amazing friends of ‘all’ sexes, just through my calling the right number. The service Susie (and others like her provide) is truly an important one. She makes ‘people’ feel whole. She cares, she understands, she is encouraging and complimentary, she is honest and she is talented. Susie and her partner have become very special to me and I owe them both so much, Thank You Susie xxx
As for me, well I am now whole, complete, the full Monty. An experienced girl that that loves to socialise and shop. As for Mr Grumpy, well he seems a whole lot happier now as well. Although he could be a little more giving with his Credit Card if you ask me…
Wherever you are at in your own journey, at the beginning of discovering who you are or an experienced ‘out & about’ there like me’, I wish you EVERY Happiness.
xxx AnnA xxx
From Repartee Magazine May 2017
How many times I have heard this statement in my dressings. I would say 90% of my new girls would say this after their first dressing with me. So many of my girls have harboured this innate sense that they want to dress as a woman, be it subtle slutty or fetish it does not matter.
I always try to relate my blogs to my experiences at dressings and one of the biggest worries I get from my girls is weight loss. You see it so often that they have such an ideal shape that they would like to achieve but are frustrated as to how to get there as their body just does not want to play. Corsets and shapewear can do some of the work to change the different bone structures from male to female but there are parts where the only real solution is to lose the muscle or fat.
Yes it’s that time of year when we turn to giving and catching up with others who we seem to have left behind for the last few months. I will not even think about the New Year’s resolutions yet! So at this time I turn to think about what I would like this Christmas. Purely selfish I have to say! So here are my Christmas wishes for 2014!